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This is really going to depend on the circumstances of the seppuku. As explained before here and here, seppuku is usually better thought of punishment rather than to preserve honor. Being allowed seppuku was a privilege for you to show you can die in a way that befits a warrior and if you weren't going to do it they'd just behead you like a criminal. I mean the second part of the ritual was someone cutting off your head to ease your suffering, so someone would be cutting off your head anyway. And by the mid Edo a lot of seppuku didn't even involve belly cutting, but just tapping your stomach with a fan (see here).

But usually nothing happened to the female members of the family. The wife would probably take a Buddhist vow and pray for the soul of her husband the rest of her life. When Asano Naganori's was ordered to commit seppuku and his Akō Domain confiscated (the catalyst of the Akō incident, commonly known as the forty-seven rōnin), that's what his wife did. The exception to this is if the seppuku was carried out in war time when the castle fell, in which case she might also kill herself to prevent rape and/or capture, or just to follow her husband, or she might even die in the fighting. If the female members don't die, then they'll be captured and given as reward or taken in by others and probably eventually married off. Oda Nobunaga's sister Oichi for instance committed double suicide with her second husband Shibata Katsuie when their castle fell. Her three daughters (by her first husband Asai Nagamasa) were rescued and raised by Oda relatives before eventually being married off to important people.

For male family members, if they were in the same castle/battle, they'd probably already be dead or also commit suicide. Otherwise it would depend on the circumstances. For instance:

Hirate Masahide, Nobunaga's appointed teacher, committed suicide for some unknown reason. There's various theories and the only thing mentioned in the primary source is that Nobunaga asked Hirate's eldest son for his horse but the son wouldn't give it so Nobunaga and Hirate's son's relationship steadily worsened, and Masahide said Nobunaga turning out so badly was his responsibility as the teacher and then killed himself. In any case Masahide's immediate male descendants seemed to have continued to serve Nobunaga. Nobunaga seemed to have taken a liking to Hirate Hirohide (Masahide's youngest son or grandson, sources are unclear), and Nobunaga specifically listed his death at Mikatagahara as one of the reasons for sacking Sakuma Nobumori. Whatever happened to the eldest son that refused to give his horse to his lord is a mystery as the names used in the sources are not in sync so we don't know who exactly he is.

Shimizu Muneharu committed seppuku as part of the terms of surrender of the Mōri clan's Takamatsu Castle to Toyotomi Hideyoshi, and his son continued employment under the Mōri.

Tokugawa Ieyasu ordered his eldest son Nobuyasu to commit seppuku (sources differ on whether or not Oda Nobunaga forced him to do this), while the third Shōgun Iemitsu ordered his brother Tadanaga to commit seppuku, and obviously in both cases the other members of the Tokugawa family were fine.

When Hōjō Ujimasa finally surrendered Odawara to Hideyoshi, he was ordered to commit seppuku along with many ranking members of the clan. The Hōjō clan was done as an independent political force (the lands were given to Ieyasu), but Ujimasa's son Ujinao (the official head of the clan as Ujimasa had retired, but Ujimasa held on to power as was a common arrangement of the time) and lesser important relatives survived thanks to Ieyasu, as Ujinao was his son-in-law, and eventually became rulers of Sayama domain.

Asano Nagahiro, younger brother of the aforementioned Naganori had his land confiscated and went to live with relatives of another branch of the Asano family. The sons of the forty-seven rōnin were sentenced to exile to Izu Ōshima if they were over 15 (by traditional age count, which could be anywhere between 13 and 15), and to be exiled when they reach 15. There was a country-wide general amnesty in 1709 (due to a new Shōgun, as was the usual reason for general amnesty), and Nagahiro was given a position as Tokugawa hatamoto.

Если вкратце, то ребёнок умирал только в случае захвата замка. Тогда это было не сэппуку, а обычный суицид, ибо всё равно бы убили. НО не всегда. Как видно выше множество детей выжило и никто их не убивал. Изначальная цель сэппуку - это смерть с честью, а не просто убийство или суицид. Дети и женщины они избегали этой участи почти всегда, а в твоём видео прямо в комментариях разъёбывают это говно.